Alex turned 12 today, January 27th. So hard to believe that our oldest child is now 12 years old! Alex adds so much to our family. He's quite the tease and is a great big brother to his little sisters. I'm so grateful for his daily hugs. Alex met with the bishop on Sunday and will be ordained to be a deacon.
We had both families come over for dinner on Sunday and then had the traditional cake & ice cream.
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Happy 12th Birthday, Alex!
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Winter Dance Recital
Ashley, Abbey & Aliza had their Winter Dance Recital last Tuesday night, January 13th. Ashley & her friend, Kaitlyn are on a competition team this year and have dance every Tuesday & Thursday night. Abbey is also on a competition team this year and has dance every Monday & Wednesday night. Aliza takes ballet, tap & jazz with a 3-4 year old class every Tuesday afternoon. So yes, with three girls in dance we are constantly driving back & forth to their dance studio. Our girls have always loved to dance and we've started all of them in dance since they were 3 years old. So needless to say, we've been to many dance recitals! Ashley with friend Kaitlyn, Abbey with friend Alexa and Aliza
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Friday, January 16, 2009
It's Tax Time!
The tax season has officially begun! Today is the first day to file returns electronically. It's been a busy few weeks at our house. I've had the kids helping me with our annual mailers that we mail to our clients. Ashley & Abbey have worked hard stuffing envelopes, putting the labels on and placing business cards on calendar magnets. I've also been extremely busy filing W-2's & payroll tax returns, which are all due January 31st.
As I've thought of this past week, it reminds me of this picture I found at motivatedphotos.com. I have no idea what this dad is doing, but I love the caption, "Parenthood: Now you always have someone who will go along with your brilliant ideas!" And that's what's been happening at our house this week, a week full of work, work, work!
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Monday, January 12, 2009
Hi from Ava!
Ava's new word of choice, "Hi!" I really should count how many times she says it in one day. From when she wakes up from a nap, to when she sees anyone (especially the older kids coming home from school) and my personal favorite, almost every time I'm nursing her, she'll pull off and say, "Hi." She cracks us up!
Oh, to be the 5th child in a family. The kids LOVE her so much, but wow, does she ever get "mauled" on a daily basis which is from all of Ashley's friends who constantly want to hold her, to being pushed around in every doll stroller in our house, to being put in a laundry basket and holding on to dear life while her older sisters run through the hall, and the list goes on and on. I wonder if she knew the chaos she was going to be born into 14 months ago.
For any of my fellow blogger friends with 3 or more kids, you'll probably laugh at this one. I received this in an email from my friend, Marie. ENJOY!
BIRTH ORDER OF CHILDREN
Maternity Clothes
1st baby: You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as your OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy.
2nd baby: You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible.
3rd baby: Your maternity clothes ARE your regular clothes.
Preparing for the Birth
1st baby: You practice your breathing religiously.
2nd baby: You don't bother because you remember that last time, breathing didn't do a thing. 3rd baby: You ask for an epidural in your eighth month.
The Layette
1st baby: You pre-wash newborn's clothes, color-coordinate them, and fold them neatly in the baby's little bureau.
2nd baby: You check to make sure that the clothes are clean and discard only the ones with the darkest stains.
3rd baby: Boys can wear pink, can't they?
Worries
1st baby: At the first sign of distress--a whimper, a frown--you pick up the baby
2nd baby: You pick the baby up when her wails threaten to wake your firstborn.
3rd baby: You teach your three-year-old how to rewind the mechanical swing.
Pacifier
1st baby: If the pacifier falls on the floor, you put it away until you can go home and wash and boil it.
2nd baby: When the pacifier falls on the floor, you squirt it off with some juice from the baby's bottle.
3rd baby: You wipe it off on your shirt and pop it back in.
Diapering
1st baby: You change your baby's diapers every hour, whether they need it or not.
2nd baby: You change their diaper every two to three hours, if needed.
3rd baby: You try to change their diaper before others start to complain about the smell or you see it sagging to their knees.
Activities
1st baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics, Baby Swing, Baby Zoo, Baby Movies and Baby Story Hour.
2nd baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics.
3rd baby: You take your infant to the supermarket and the dry cleaners.
Going Out
1st baby: The first time you leave your baby with a sitter, you call home five times.
2nd baby: Just before you walk out the door, you remember to leave a number where you can be reached.
3rd baby: You leave instructions for the sitter to call only if she sees blood.
At Home
1st baby: You spend a good bit of every day just gazing at the baby.
2nd baby: You spend a bit of everyday watching to be sure your older child isn't squeezing, poking, or hitting the baby.
3rd baby: You spend a little bit of every day hiding from the children. (so true!!)
Swallowing Coins
1st child: When first child swallows a coin, you rush the child to the hospital and demand x-rays 2nd child: When second child swallows a coin, you carefully watch for the coin to pass.
3rd child: When third child swallows a coin you deduct it from his allowance!
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Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Weigh In Wednesday Week #1 & Biggest Loser

So here's to a new year of Weigh in Wednesdays. I officially have 18.2 lbs left to hit my goal weight. Each Wednesday, I'll weigh myself in and then report if I've lost or gained weight. Feel free to play along on your blog. My good friend, Kristy is in! And I'm grateful to a few of my close friends, Mindy & Margo, for their support and ideas of how to lose the final pounds!
I'm officially declaring 2009 as my year to "Feel Fine in 2009!" In 2008, I managed to lose all of my pregnancy weight and then an additional 7.8 lbs. I was hoping that I could finish the year without anyone asking me if I was pregnant, but oh no, that happened 2x in 2008. And here's a few of the latest weight comments said to me in the last few months that have left me determined to get rid of my muffin top for once and for all!
I was trying on some clothes at a local boutique and the owner said, "You know, you should get one of those spanx for your middle section, it really tightens it up." But then again, to her credit, I did just purchase one and it really does make a difference.
A friend of mine at one of our bunko parties said, "A friend of mine has a body just like yours, she has teeny arms and legs and a bigger tummy!" Thanks for pointing out the obvious!
A distant cousin at my Grandpa's 90th birthday party asked if I was expecting. Note to all: never ask!!! Even if you see a pregnant woman that is full term, just talk to her and if she truly is expecting, she will always bring it up! Once again, NEVER ASK!!!!
And Abbey before Christmas walked in the door after school and said, "Mom, are you having a baby? Is this a Christmas surprise?"
So let's just say after the many comments, it's officially time to lose the muffin top!
I watched Oprah on Monday and was extremely touched and teared up as she said the most important step of weight loss is to truly love your body that God has given you. I had chills run through my body when she said this. I know I have been blessed by an extremely fertile body that has given birth to 5 incredibly beautiful and healthy children. I feel so great being pregnant that I recently joked with Jason that I should be a surrogate for people with infertility. Of course, it was a joke, but when you hear that they charge up to $80,000/pregnancy, it's quite tempting! In all realities, at 37 years old, I'm actually to old to be considered! I have been blessed by a healthy body.
In honor of the Biggest Loser TV show, one of my neighbor's is hosting her own Biggest Loser Group. I just signed up. Each person is putting in their $20 and each week we weigh in. The winner will take the pot. The contest is true "biggest loser" style, based on your % weight loss not total # of pounds lost. Nothing like money to be the ultimate motivator! So far, only 5 of us have signed up. Abbey overheard me telling Jason about the contest and then she had this mortified look on her face and said, "Mom, are you leaving to go be on the biggest loser show?" Alex then piped in, "Mom, you're too skinny to be on that show." Of course, I then reassured them it was only a neighborhood contest to help us get in shape.
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Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Another super fabulous blogtastic giveaway!
Mindy, is having another blog giveaway to celebrate her 1 year anniversary of blogging, Click here to enter! She's giving away all items shown in picture and including: $25 in itunes, $25 pottery barn gift card) Enter now, contest ends, January 21st! If you haven't visited her blog, you're in for a real treat!
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Monday, January 5, 2009
Happy New Years!
We rang in 2009 with some friends of mine! (I'm a poet and didn't even know it). We had a great time celebrating New Year's Eve at David & Mindy's house. Rock the house good times! Jason & David went and watched the movie "Yes Man" (their favorite thing to do when we get together, in all reality I'm sure it's to escape the madness of 11 children). We always have a blast hanging out with David & Mindy & their kids. Good food, good laughs, what more could you ask for? And Mindy accomplished one of her resolutions for 2009-she started her own BLOG! Click here to read. We brainstormed together some possible blog names, but after much collaboration we all voted for: partylikeasoccermom! David is also an amazing computer programmer and updated my tax website with a new calendar for 2009. He came up with this genius idea of creating a website that our tax clients can access and set their own tax appointments online. It truly has saved Jason & I so many hours (of returning phone calls) during the tax season. Thanks again, David!Yes, count them-there's 11 kids total. Mindy's family is opposite of ours (she has all boys & one girl-Kaden, Kalyssa, Karson, Karter, Koleman, & Kyler).
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Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Math Quiz
Who is your role model?
Try it without looking at the answers.
1. Pick your favorite number between 1-9.
2. Multiply by 3 then
3. Add 3, then again multiply by 3 (I'll wait while you get the calculator...)
4. You'll get a 2 or 3 digit number
5. Add the digits together
Now scroll down..................
Now with that number see who your role model is from the list below:
1. Einstein
2. Abraham Lincoln
3. John McCain
4. Nelson Mandela
5. Bill Gates
6. Gandhi
7. Brad Pitt
8. Hitler
9. Michelle (ME!)
10. Barack Obama
I know.....I just have that effect on people.....one day you too can be like me!
PS. Stop picking different numbers. I am your idol. Just deal with it!
* Thanks to Uncle Lee, for sending this math quiz. And I had to replace my name for #9, sorry Lee!
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Monday, December 29, 2008
Merry, Merry Christmas!
I had the hardest time waking up Christmas morning. I always stay up way too late Christmas Eve wrapping presents, cleaning the house, and making breakfast for Christmas morning. I probably slept a total of 4 hours on Christmas Eve.
Luckily, the kids slept in until 9:00 am. They didn't fall asleep until 12:30 and Ava didn't fall asleep until 2:00 am. She was so wired and didn't wake up until 11:00 am. We opened presents and then later, our extended family came over to see the kids and their presents and had breakfast at our house.
Ashley & Abbey were thrilled to open their American Girl dolls. They also received a magazine subscription to American Girl, an American Girl game, Littlest Pet Shop games for their Nintendo DS and Littlest Pet Shop toys.
Ashley & Abbey with their "Just Like You" American Girl dolls.
Ashley with her newest Webkinz, a hedgehog she named, Halle, to add to her collection of Webkinz.
Abbey with her newest Webkinz, a goldfish, to add to her collection of Webkinz.
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Sunday, December 28, 2008
Christmas Eve
So, here's how we spent our Christmas Eve, full of family and full of traditions.Before bedtime, the kids each open a present, which is always a new pair of pajamas.
We went to Jason's parents for dinner and then opened presents.
Then, we headed to my mom's house, which is conveniently only a minute or two drive from Jason's parents house. She had a turkey dinner and then we did our annual nativity scene with the kids while we read Luke 2. We started this tradition in 1977, when my little brother, Joe was born.
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Holiday Mix
One of my favorite Holiday treats-the famous holiday mix. Thanks to Jason's parents for providing this snack on Christmas Eve.
4 cups corn chex
4 cups rice chex
2 cups coconut, shredded
2 cups slivered almonds
Sauce:
1 cup sugar
1 cup karo syrup
3/4 cup margarine
Mix all ingredients in large bowl. Make sauce in sauce pan. Boil for 2 minutes. Pour over cereal mixture and stir. ENJOY!
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On the 12th Day of Christmas
On the 12th day of Christmas, we hope you will always know, How much we loved surprising you, we hope it really showed.
Attached to the note & story was a nativity scene.
IT'S CHRISTMAS NIGHT
by Max Lucado
It's Christmas night. The house is quiet. Even the crackle is gone from the fireplace. Warm coals issue a lighthouse glow in the darkened den. Stockings hang empty on the mantle. The tree stands naked in the corner. Christmas cards, tinsel, and memories remind Christmas night of Christmas day. It's Christmas night. What a day it has been! Spiced tea. Santa Claus. Cranberry sauce. "Thank you, so much." "You shouldn't have!" "Grandma is on the phone." Knee-deep wrapping paper. "It just fits." Flashing cameras. It's Christmas night. The girls are in bed. Jenna dreams of her talking Big Bird and clutches her new purse. Andrea sleeps in her new Santa pajamas. It's Christmas night. The tree that only yesterday grew from soil made of gifts, again grows from the Christmas tree stand. Presents are now possessions. Wrapping paper is bagged and in the dumpsite. The dishes are washed and leftover turkey awaits next week's sandwiches. It's Christmas night. The last of the carolers appeared on the ten o'clock news. The last of the apple pie was eaten by my brother-in-law. And the last of the Christmas albums have been stored away having dutifully performed their annual rendition of chestnuts, white Christmases, and red-nosed reindeer. It's Christmas night.
The midnight hour has chimed and I should be asleep, but I'm awake. I'm kept awake by one stunning thought. The world was different this week. It was temporarily transformed. The magical dust of Christmas glittered on the cheeks of humanity ever so briefly, reminding us of what is worth having and what we were intended to be. We forgot our compulsion with winning, wooing, and warring. We put away our ladders and ledgers, we hung up our stop watches and weapons. We stepped off our racetracks and roller coasters and looked outward toward the star of Bethlehem.
It's the season to be jolly because, more than at any other time, we think of him. More than in any other season, his name is on our lips. And the result? For a few precious hours our heavenly yearnings intermesh and we become a chorus. A ragtag chorus of longshoremen, Boston lawyers, illegal immigrants, housewives, and a thousand other peculiar persons who are banking that Bethlehem's mystery is in reality, a reality. "Come and behold him" we sing, stirring even the sleepiest of shepherds and pointing them toward the Christ-child.
For a few precious hours, he is beheld. Christ the Lord. Those who pass the year without seeing him, suddenly see him. People who have been accustomed to using his name in vain, pause to use it in praise. Eyes, now free of the blinders of self, marvel at his majesty. All of a sudden he's everywhere. In the grin of the policeman as he drives his paddy wagon full of presents to the orphanage. In the twinkle in the eyes of the Taiwanese waiter as he tells of his upcoming Christmas trip to see his children. In the emotion of the father who is too thankful to finish the dinner table prayer. He's in the tears of the mother as she welcomes home her son from overseas. He's in the heart of the man who spent Christmas morning on skid row giving away cold baloney sandwiches and warm wishes. And he's in the solemn silence of the crowd of shopping mall shoppers as the elementary school chorus sings "Away in a Manger." Emmanuel. He is with us. God came near. It's Christmas night. In a few hours the cleanup will begin -- lights will come down, trees will be thrown out. Size 36 will be exchanged for size 40, eggnog will be on sale for half-price. Soon life will be normal again. December's generosity will become January's payments and the magic will begin to fade. But for the moment, the magic is still in the air. Maybe that's why I'm still awake. I want to savor the spirit just a bit more. I want to pray that those who beheld him today will look for him next August. And I can't help but linger on one fanciful thought: if he can do so much with such timid prayers lamely offered in December, how much more could he do if we thought of him every day?
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Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Santa Tracker
Our kids have fun on Christmas Eve tracking Santa and finding out where he is currently delivering presents. Click here to see where Santa is now. Also, on this website you can click on the Kid's Countdown section, where they can play Christmas computer games, which I'm finding is a very useful tool to keep them busy to help me tackle my Christmas to-do list.
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Christmas Brunch Delight
One of my favorite Christmas traditions on Christmas morning after the kids open all of their presents is to enjoy a yummy Christmas breakfast together. This is one of my favorites to make on Christmas morning. We also make cinnamon rolls, bacon, and rushti (my Great-Grandma's recipe-delicious hashbrowns). We'll usually serve this all morning since both mine & Jason's families come over Christmas morning to see the kids and their presents. ENJOY!
CHRISTMAS BRUNCH DELIGHT
8 slices bread with crusts removed
2 cups cheddar cheese, grated
1 1/2 cups ham chopped or sausage cooked
8 eggs beaten
1 1/2 cups milk
1/2 tsp salt
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1 can cream of mushroom soup
1/2 cup milk
Butter, grease or "pam" a 9 x 13 pan. Line with bread. Sprinkle cheese on top. Sprinkle with the chopped ham or the cooked sausage. Beat eggs with milk and mustard. Pour on top of the bread, cheese and meat. Refrigerate overnight or can bake right then (Best if done overnight) When ready to bake, mix soup with milk and pour on top of mixture. Cook 1 1/4 - 1 1/2 hours at 300 degrees. Serves 12.
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On the 11th Day of Christmas
On the 11th day of Christmas, we hope you take some time, To hear a little music that is heavenly and divine!
Attached to the note & story was a christmas music CD.
John was almost five years old that Christmas. Wasn't it only natural that he was filled with awe and curiosity on that special night? He did not have an important part in the school Christmas pageant, but was just one of the many kindergarten class. As the children gathered at school for the program, the teachers were busy with preparations and costumes of those chosen to be Mary and Joseph and the angels, shepherds, and wise men. No one noticed a little boy go out the door into hall. But he had heard the baby! There was to be a baby-he knew that.
Down the dark hall was the way he had to go. He wondered why God didn't send the star, and then he remembered. The star wasn't for him. It was really for the shepherds and the wise men, and he wasn't anybody important like that. He'd have to be very brave and go alone to find the baby. He turned the corner cautiously. At the far end of the hall, he saw a light coming from a doorway. Then he heard the baby's cry more clearly. He knew then where to go. Mary Meadowcroft knelt beside the brown beanbag chair her husband, Joe, had brought to school for his sixth-grade reading corner as she put young Jeffrey down to rest. He was normally a contented baby. Had she know he would cry like this, she would have stayed at home with him instead of coming to school with Joe to see the pageant.
The sudden presence of so many eager children must have frightened Jeffrey for he began crying almost immediately and would not be stilled. At least the program would not be long. Mary decided to wait here in Joe's classroom with the baby, so his crying would not disturb anyone. Suddenly, she was startled to hear a little voice questioning, "Are you Mary?" "Why, yes, I am. she answered with amazement. "Do I know you?" "I came to see your baby," said John. "I didn't know He ever cried like that," he added softly. "Jeffrey is just frightened to be in a strange place." "Hi," John said softly as he knelt down beside the baby. "I'm John. I'm not a wise man or anything, but they couldn't come." The baby stopped crying to turn and look at John. Mary remained perfectly still, her mouth drawn into an astonished, "Oh!"
"I forgot to bring you something, little Jeffrey Jesus." The baby was smiling now. John put out a tentative finger to touch him and said in whispered adoration, "I really do love you, Jeffrey Jesus." Suddenly John smiled. "I know what I can give you! I'll sing you a song that we've been practicing. I know all the words!"
By now John's parents had come searching for him. They were stopped in the doorway by the sight of Mary and the baby listening to John's gift of song.
Bless all the dear children in your tender care.
And take us to Heaven to live with your there.
The baby beamed at the singing child while three adults, their hearts full of wonder, saw a glimpse of an angel that night.
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On the 10th Day of Christmas
On the 10th day of Christmas, we give you a special treat, A story full of love, and gifts with some chocolate to eat.
Attached to the note and story was chocolates.
THE GIFT OF THE MAGI
by O. Henry
One dollar and eighty-seven cents. That was all. And sixty cents of it was in pennies. Pennies saved one and two at a time by bulldozing the grocer and the vegetable man and the butcher until one's cheeks burned with the silent imputation of parsimony that such close dealing implied. Three times Della counted it. One dollar and eighty- seven cents. And the next day would be Christmas.
There was clearly nothing to do but flop down on the shabby little couch and howl. So Della did it. Which instigates the moral reflection that life is made up of sobs, sniffles, and smiles, with sniffles predominating.
While the mistress of the home is gradually subsiding from the first stage to the second, take a look at the home. A furnished flat at $8 per week. It did not exactly beggar description, but it certainly had that word on the lookout for the mendicancy squad.
In the vestibule below was a letter-box into which no letter would go, and an electric button from which no mortal finger could coax a ring. Also appertaining thereunto was a card bearing the name "Mr. James Dillingham Young."
The "Dillingham" had been flung to the breeze during a former period of prosperity when its possessor was being paid $30 per week. Now, when the income was shrunk to $20, though, they were thinking seriously of contracting to a modest and unassuming D. But whenever Mr. James Dillingham Young came home and reached his flat above he was called "Jim" and greatly hugged by Mrs. James Dillingham Young, already introduced to you as Della. Which is all very good.
Della finished her cry and attended to her cheeks with the powder rag. She stood by the window and looked out dully at a gray cat walking a gray fence in a gray backyard. Tomorrow would be Christmas Day, and she had only $1.87 with which to buy Jim a present. She had been saving every penny she could for months, with this result. Twenty dollars a week doesn't go far. Expenses had been greater than she had calculated. They always are. Only $1.87 to buy a present for Jim. Her Jim. Many a happy hour she had spent planning for something nice for him. Something fine and rare and sterling--something just a little bit near to being worthy of the honor of being owned by Jim.
There was a pier-glass between the windows of the room. Perhaps you have seen a pier-glass in an $8 flat. A very thin and very agile person may, by observing his reflection in a rapid sequence of longitudinal strips, obtain a fairly accurate conception of his looks. Della, being slender, had mastered the art.
Suddenly she whirled from the window and stood before the glass. her eyes were shining brilliantly, but her face had lost its color within twenty seconds. Rapidly she pulled down her hair and let it fall to its full length.
Now, there were two possessions of the James Dillingham Youngs in which they both took a mighty pride. One was Jim's gold watch that had been his father's and his grandfather's. The other was Della's hair. Had the queen of Sheba lived in the flat across the airshaft, Della would have let her hair hang out the window some day to dry just to depreciate Her Majesty's jewels and gifts. Had King Solomon been the janitor, with all his treasures piled up in the basement, Jim would have pulled out his watch every time he passed, just to see him pluck at his beard from envy.
So now Della's beautiful hair fell about her rippling and shining like a cascade of brown waters. It reached below her knee and made itself almost a garment for her. And then she did it up again nervously and quickly. Once she faltered for a minute and stood still while a tear or two splashed on the worn red carpet.
On went her old brown jacket; on went her old brown hat. With a whirl of skirts and with the brilliant sparkle still in her eyes, she fluttered out the door and down the stairs to the street.
Where she stopped the sign read: "Mne. Sofronie. Hair Goods of All Kinds." One flight up Della ran, and collected herself, panting. Madame, large, too white, chilly, hardly looked the "Sofronie."
"Will you buy my hair?" asked Della.
"I buy hair," said Madame. "Take yer hat off and let's have a sight at the looks of it."
Down rippled the brown cascade.
"Twenty dollars," said Madame, lifting the mass with a practised hand.
"Give it to me quick," said Della.
Oh, and the next two hours tripped by on rosy wings. Forget the hashed metaphor. She was ransacking the stores for Jim's present.
She found it at last. It surely had been made for Jim and no one else. There was no other like it in any of the stores, and she had turned all of them inside out. It was a platinum fob chain simple and chaste in design, properly proclaiming its value by substance alone and not by meretricious ornamentation--as all good things should do. It was even worthy of The Watch. As soon as she saw it she knew that it must be Jim's. It was like him. Quietness and value--the description applied to both. Twenty-one dollars they took from her for it, and she hurried home with the 87 cents. With that chain on his watch Jim might be properly anxious about the time in any company. Grand as the watch was, he sometimes looked at it on the sly on account of the old leather strap that he used in place of a chain.
When Della reached home her intoxication gave way a little to prudence and reason. She got out her curling irons and lighted the gas and went to work repairing the ravages made by generosity added to love. Which is always a tremendous task, dear friends--a mammoth task.
Within forty minutes her head was covered with tiny, close-lying curls that made her look wonderfully like a truant schoolboy. She looked at her reflection in the mirror long, carefully, and critically.
"If Jim doesn't kill me," she said to herself, "before he takes a second look at me, he'll say I look like a Coney Island chorus girl. But what could I do--oh! what could I do with a dollar and eighty- seven cents?"
At 7 o'clock the coffee was made and the frying-pan was on the back of the stove hot and ready to cook the chops.
Jim was never late. Della doubled the fob chain in her hand and sat on the corner of the table near the door that he always entered. Then she heard his step on the stair away down on the first flight, and she turned white for just a moment. She had a habit for saying little silent prayer about the simplest everyday things, and now she whispered: "Please God, make him think I am still pretty."
The door opened and Jim stepped in and closed it. He looked thin and very serious. Poor fellow, he was only twenty-two--and to be burdened with a family! He needed a new overcoat and he was without gloves.
Jim stopped inside the door, as immovable as a setter at the scent of quail. His eyes were fixed upon Della, and there was an expression in them that she could not read, and it terrified her. It was not anger, nor surprise, nor disapproval, nor horror, nor any of the sentiments that she had been prepared for. He simply stared at her fixedly with that peculiar expression on his face.
Della wriggled off the table and went for him.
"Jim, darling," she cried, "don't look at me that way. I had my hair cut off and sold because I couldn't have lived through Christmas without giving you a present. It'll grow out again--you won't mind, will you? I just had to do it. My hair grows awfully fast. Say `Merry Christmas!' Jim, and let's be happy. You don't know what a nice-- what a beautiful, nice gift I've got for you."
"You've cut off your hair?" asked Jim, laboriously, as if he had not arrived at that patent fact yet even after the hardest mental labor.
"Cut it off and sold it," said Della. "Don't you like me just as well, anyhow? I'm me without my hair, ain't I?"
Jim looked about the room curiously.
"You say your hair is gone?" he said, with an air almost of idiocy.
"You needn't look for it," said Della. "It's sold, I tell you--sold and gone, too. It's Christmas Eve, boy. Be good to me, for it went for you. Maybe the hairs of my head were numbered," she went on with sudden serious sweetness, "but nobody could ever count my love for you. Shall I put the chops on, Jim?"
Out of his trance Jim seemed quickly to wake. He enfolded his Della. For ten seconds let us regard with discreet scrutiny some inconsequential object in the other direction. Eight dollars a week or a million a year--what is the difference? A mathematician or a wit would give you the wrong answer. The magi brought valuable gifts, but that was not among them. This dark assertion will be illuminated later on.
Jim drew a package from his overcoat pocket and threw it upon the table.
"Don't make any mistake, Dell," he said, "about me. I don't think there's anything in the way of a haircut or a shave or a shampoo that could make me like my girl any less. But if you'll unwrap that package you may see why you had me going a while at first."
White fingers and nimble tore at the string and paper. And then an ecstatic scream of joy; and then, alas! a quick feminine change to hysterical tears and wails, necessitating the immediate employment of all the comforting powers of the lord of the flat.
For there lay The Combs--the set of combs, side and back, that Della had worshipped long in a Broadway window. Beautiful combs, pure tortoise shell, with jewelled rims--just the shade to wear in the beautiful vanished hair. They were expensive combs, she knew, and her heart had simply craved and yearned over them without the least hope of possession. And now, they were hers, but the tresses that should have adorned the coveted adornments were gone.
But she hugged them to her bosom, and at length she was able to look up with dim eyes and a smile and say: "My hair grows so fast, Jim!"
And them Della leaped up like a little singed cat and cried, "Oh, oh!"
Jim had not yet seen his beautiful present. She held it out to him eagerly upon her open palm. The dull precious metal seemed to flash with a reflection of her bright and ardent spirit.
"Isn't it a dandy, Jim? I hunted all over town to find it. You'll have to look at the time a hundred times a day now. Give me your watch. I want to see how it looks on it."
Instead of obeying, Jim tumbled down on the couch and put his hands under the back of his head and smiled.
"Dell," said he, "let's put our Christmas presents away and keep 'em a while. They're too nice to use just at present. I sold the watch to get the money to buy your combs. And now suppose you put the chops on."
The magi, as you know, were wise men--wonderfully wise men--who brought gifts to the Babe in the manger. They invented the art of giving Christmas presents. Being wise, their gifts were no doubt wise ones, possibly bearing the privilege of exchange in case of duplication. And here I have lamely related to you the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. But in a last word to the wise of these days let it be said that of all who give gifts these two were the wisest. O all who give and receive gifts, such as they are wisest. Everywhere they are wisest. They are the magi.
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Monday, December 22, 2008
Savior of the World
Last Thursday, we went to see Savior of the World, a musical drama presented by our church (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) which was about the Savior's birth and resurrection and held at the conference center in Salt Lake City.
The play was for persons of age of eight years and older (technically Abbey is only 7, but I thought close enough, she's can sit still) so we took "Team A" (Alex, Ashley & Abbey, our oldest 3 kids, it's easier to call our 3 oldest, who are in school all day "Team A" & and the youngest 2, who are at home all day "Team B". Yes, probably a sign I have a large family when it's easier to label them into a group instead of saying their individual names! We laughed when we heard our friends, David & Mindy call their kids "Team A & Team B" and then realized their pure genius!).
My brother, Jeff & wife, Missy also came with us, which we tried to get pictures with them, but Missy claimed she was having a "bad hair day" Nice try, Missy! Your bad hair day is a great hair day for me! But it was nice to have them with us, plus we didn't have to ask strangers to take our pictures.
"We solemnly testify that His life, which is central to all human history, neither began in Bethlehem nor concluded on Calvary. He was the Firstborn of the Father, the Only Begotten Son in the flesh, the Redeemer of the world."
We talked to the kids on the way home about the play. I want them to have as many experiences as possible to feel of the Spirit. We talked about specific times during the play when they felt a warm feeling, felt like crying or felt at peace. Poor Alex had a hard time concentrating because Alex ended up sitting by Jeff (not the distraction!) and on the other side of him was three teenage girls who were talking the entire time about people's hair and clothes. Alex said they kept saying "Oh, I lost my phone" and then realized their phone was sitting on her lap. Ok, as I'm typing this, it probably doesn't sound too funny, but Alex imitating the teenage girls was pretty hilarious.
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Aliza's Christmas Dance Party
Aliza had a Christmas dance party last week. Her dance class performed a mini "nutcracker" for the parents to watch. She has absolutely loved dance this year plus as an extra bonus she has five little friends from her neighborhood that we carpool with. Aliza and her friends did such a great job dancing.
Here's a few random shots I took:
The beginning of the performance. Started out with capes which turned to....
dresses as they turned into "sugar plum fairies."
The props continued with crowns & wands to....
sashes of ribbon.
After they danced for the parents, they had a little gift exchange and they each shared their favorite treat with each other in the class.
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